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(continued from part 1)
I've tried peacocking myself. I did this maybe a couple times when I heard that other guys were doing it, just to see if it worked.
I felt ridiculous, and was totally incongruent with my personality when I went out.
Women pay attention to fashion and like a well-dressed man, as we all know.
I noticed that it was in my workout clothes or something really basic - like jeans and a tanktop that some of my best pickups occurred.
At the same time, women definitely did not respond well to those muscled-up guys wearing revealing spandex, or super-tight shirts at the club.
It got me thinking... that maybe it's not how flashy or costly are the cloths should be.
Maybe there's something else going on.
Actually, there are two things going on, and you must manage, or balance these two things.
First and foremost, never seek approval from women. If a woman can tell that you are trying to impress her or make her like you, you are toast.
So if you come like you got dressed with a purpose of getting women's attention, they'll see you coming a mile a way and put up their defenses.
You DON'T have to look like a pick up artist.
To dress modestly and not put too much thought into it avails much.
However, you don't want to look sloppy. You want to present yourself in the best way you can.
This comes back to self-expression.
You already have a sense what kind of man you are, what your "scene" is, what you think is cool.
Do not change that.
Instead, cultivate it, with these simple tweaks.
Wear colors that suites to your skin tone and hair color. This isn't rocket science. You can look online or go to n upscale men's clothing store, and ask someone about this.
Next is to make sure that your clothes are clean, wrinkle free and reasonably updated. A woman will not worry about bringing you around her friends.
Lastly, make sure that your garments are well-fitted, in other words, they EMPHASIZE YOUR MASCULINE PHYSIQUE.
Wear shirts that narrow your waist, and square your shoulders.
Put on a pants that make your legs look long and thin.
Wear shoes that make your feet look big and well-formed.
Groom yourself - nose, neck, and ear hairs. Get a nice haircut. Shave, or don't, but figure out what looks great and take it all the way.
One other piece...
Accessories should adhere off you loosely, and have a look of a small decoration that says, "yeah, I can -bleep-."
I don't want to talk too much because that's a whole other topic because that's a whole other topic. Just use your intuition with this one.
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