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I am NOT a very fashionable type of guy.
I usually let my girlfriend pick out clothes for me - not
for MY benefit..
... so that if we go out in public together she will not
feel embarrassed!
If it were up to me, I'd wear sweats and a t-shirt all day,
with some old worn out sneakers. I mean, I think fashion is
pretty silly.
I definitely appreciate the artistic aspect of fashion
style and design. It is like a work of art when I look at a
very well dressed woman, I dig that.
But when a guy is "too stylish" I kinda lose respect for
him.
Don't misinterpret me, a man should present himself like he
means to be taken seriously. A nice suit, good quality,
well-fitting clothes are a basic of being a masculine.
But some men take it too far.
Case in point, the obsession with "peacocking" in the
pickup Community for the past several years.
It makes me cringe when I hear this term.
YOU ARE NOT A PEACOCK.
Let me explain what is "peacocking," in case you're not
familiar.
A while ago, there was an emergence of routine-based
"game," relying heavily on superficial techniques, status
games, and over-analysis of social interactions.
This always gone in the opposite direction and I never saw
the value of it.
Major reason is I saw how pretending to be someone other
than yourself, and it JUST FELT WRONG saying the routines
and joke that the other guys came up with.
On top of that, the PRIMARY FOCUS of all that strategizing
and game-playing was to covertly get approval from women,
while making them feel insecure so they'd think you were
cooler than them.
Think about the layers of bullshit in that approach to
dating. Not only are you faking your personality because you
a) look for approval (as if girls were an authority on what
makes man a man)
b) hide the fact that you're seeking approval
c) play games with women so that they feel insecure and try
to seek your approval
YUCK
One of the main techniques of this approach was to
"peacock," to dress up in a really loud, ostentatious way so
that women would "notice" you and want to talk to you.
Wearing a nice watch, or a necklace isn't a bad thing
because some have personal meaning.
But I never do that just to make women like me.
I'm sure many guys have seen the advocates of this approach
on TV shows,straining to make sense out of this hare-brained
"technique."
I've personally encountered students of other pickup
schools, and felt sad because these poor guys were not only
nervous, clumsy, misdirected...they looked RETARDED.
So I want to make a direct proof when it comes to fashion
and approaching women.
There are few pieces of things you need to pay attention to
when it comes to your physical looks.
After you get this stuff handled, you should put it out of
your mind, and not wait for women to notice you before you
TAKE ACTION.
Before moving on, I have something to expose.
(To be Continued in Part 2)
Tags: artist, mystery, pick, pick-up, the.
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