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Let's talk about One Night Stands.
Before I don't really know how to do the one night stands,
and I started to understand how easy it is to apply after I
have used a couple of solid pickups.
Looking back, I realize now that those initial successes
were the start of a major "bad belief overhaul."
I started to anticipate that women wants sex and wanting me.
I am having some confidence that I was that desirable and
attractive to women eventhough I know that I am far the one
considered as good-looking .
Wanting to sleep with more women is the main goal of the 75%
of my students.
While the others have the aim to find their someone special
but I don't think these aim are mutually exclusive.
Because if you are looking for a special girl, you have meet
a lot of women so that you determine and pick the best
choice.
It would be impossible to meet your someone special if you
don't socialize and meet with a bunch of good women.
One of the common phase that every good pickup artist goes
through when they gets started. Where he to learn to thinks
of new ways and behavior and then start to meet and sleep
with LOT OF WOMEN.
Like a kid that uses all his new powers just to have all
that he wants in the candy store.
There is a need of learning in order to dump out your old
way and start with a new reality - that I am desirable that
women can't resist to sleep with me.
So it's important that you have a few really fast, casual
sensual encounters, in order to get the ball rolling on
forming new beliefs.
I'm referring to a same day lays or popularly known as "ONS"
One-Night Stand.
Now if you've never had a one night stand, or maybe got
lucky a couple of times when you were drunk, having a
one-night 'stands at-will' can seem just as out-of-reach as
having a great girlfriend.
But it's actually pretty easy, if you know what you are
doing.
But a lot of men are making a way that is too hard for
themselves, where they never be able to gain the initial
sensual experience that will lead them to feel like
"natural."
If you're going though with this newsletter, then you really
want to MASTER THE GAME aside from getting BETTER with
woman.
Mastery comes from within - it starts with a mindset, and
leads to external results, which then form NEW BELIEFS in
your mind.
Your new beliefs will become the foundation in building and
facing the new reality in your life, you will then naturally
attract many women without even thinking and doing fancy
lines and routines.
First of all, if you're going for a one-night stand, there's
one thing you need to know -- You won't always be able to
get the hottest girl in the venue to go home with you.
You can get a solid number from her, but its not a guarantee
that you can take her home because whether or not a woman is
open to going home with a guy, it varies widely in
particular night.
However, in any bar, club, or even a day-time situation,
there are LOTS of horny women who would be open to getting
down with you that same day or night. You just have to know
how to spot these women.
I look for a few things - first, I notice how they are
dressed, how much makeup they have on, etc. If they look
like they put a lot of work in to being pretty, it was for a
reason.
The reason is they want to be approached. Although it isn't
always true but is generally the case.
You will also know that a woman is seeking attention when
she is so loud, hyper and animated.
And the last thing that I look for, are women that are all
standing and scoping around the room with blank expressions.
Also those women that is looking around the room more often
than the other girls in their group.
They are basically putting themselves out there, waiting for
someone to approach them.
Just take these in mind, that when you approach you don't go
into full-steam running your clever routines and cocky frame
control stuff. You have to take it easy.
A simple "hey, you guys look great tonight. Special
occasion?" is enough. It's just have to be social, delicate
and showing that you are interested in meeting them.
To discuss openly that you want her in bed and looking to
take her home can put a woman into a a point to agree and
bang with you, implicitly. So try not to make it obvious
that it is your main purpose.
Instead you want to build sensual tension, as we discuss
heavily in our workshops.
This will be against a woman's "rules" and she'll definitely
be keeping distance from you. And you really need a logistic
information to know how you can get her back to your place.
The real key to all this is subtracting any overt sensual
intention, and not trying to pick her up.
You must have the willingness to control the situation and
knows how to enjoy while having the escalation in the right
way.
This is how it will works although it may sound that counter
intuitive.
You have to believe that women wants to have sex and a lot
of women in the place wants to have a fast getting laid
down.
Some won't, but some will, and that's why it's key that you
get a sense of what to look for, and how to proceed.
I know you don't what to invest a lot of your time to pick
the right girl and then just mess it up after a long
interaction. Or to spend your time to a wrong girl or worse.
It's not worth wasting your time for that.
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