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The are men that will never become great with women and worst is, a lot of them just won't get it.
Sounds crazy but its true.
Being not smart enough or somehow having defect is not the mere reason...
Truth is, it's a subconscious choice that they have made unknowingly.
So how can you make sure that you are not one of them?
Well I'm here to tell you how. What I am about to share with you is a very subtle but very powerful fix that most leave it out of their equation.
Let me tell you about Matt. He's good guy, likes to be social and has taken a bootcamp with another pickup company. But he still doesn't get the success he longs for; the truth is, he's not successful at all.
You might wonder why I didn't help him out.
There are a couple reasons why I don't help Matt out. One being he's too set in his ways and is stubborn.
BUT, that's not the real reason. If he was only stubborn I'd have an easy time changing his mind about things.
The real reason why I can't help him is the same reason why he isn't successful with women.
As I said Matt's a good guy, but every time I had a conversation with him I get the feeling like he wants something from me. In fact a lot of our common friends have said the same thing to me about him.
We don't like hanging out with Matt and neither do women.
Matt always give this feeling of having an ulterior motive. He talks to you like a friend, which is great, but naturally he gives off a vibe telling that he's trying to take knowledge, power and fun from me.
Same as through when he's talking to women. He treats them in a friendly manner and is funny but always gives off this vibe that on another side he has an awaiting intention.
Having intentions with women isn't a bad thing. If you express your sensual intentions openly they'll accept it, especially if you have tight game. It may even turn them on. IN FACT it will skyrocket your conversion rate if you do it the right way.
But if you hide your intentions you come off as creepy and weird. Women won't trust you or feel safe being alone with you. You could be the best actor in the world but... THEY WILL KNOW.
Being creepy will kill any chance of success you might have.
You now have an idea of what might be going wrong. So how do you fix it?
To start off you need to begin being fun and unattached to the outcome as much as you can. It's not about giving back money. It could be from telling a great story to a group or being a great host to a bunch of your friends. It could also be a compliment (in the right way of course) or a tease that will spike emotions in way that is fun to a woman.
So start talking to women not only because you want to pick them up, but because you find women amazing, fun, interesting and wonderful.
Next you need to begin being clear about your intentions. This doesn't mean directly telling a woman "The whole purpose of me talking to you is so that I can get into your pants." That's instantly will kill your pickup as fast as being creepy.
There are small subtle changes you can make in your behavior that will affect how your intentions are perceived.
Tags: dating, seduction, tips.
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