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There are guys that the first thing they do when they meet a woman is show her that they understand GAME. They'll start talking about evolution, alpha males, how girls will always cheat on their boyfriends, how they know girls like intimacy more than guys etc.
Starting right now, I will refer to this nonsense as "The Talk of Death".
As what I have learn in pick-up generally this things make very poor conversation topics with women. Especially hot ones.
Let me tell you why, and also I'll give you a very counter-intuitive idea of what to do instead.
This thing might work with the social anthropologist grad student, but not to a woman that any man in his right mind would be attracted to.
(Oh BTW - if you do happen to run into a girl that loves this kind of stuff, by all means talk about it, I'm just saying it should not be used as an ATTRACTION strategy for most of the female population)
There are a few major things wrong with this technique:
1. It puts a woman on the defensive. It's like one country revealing it's battle plans to another country that it is at war with.
It shows that you are "thinking too much" about the dynamic, which not only is a huge turn off, but also makes her think you're going to be a mind-trip. Not good.
2. Chances are, her awareness level is about 10% of yours.
Especially if you're keeping up on my newsletters of the concept called "Stepped Awareness".
Have you ever tried played a song you loved for a friend and they just didn't get it?
It's because their awareness didn't go through the same process that yours had - and resulted in you really liking the song...
To a woman who spends the majority of her time thinking about new clothes, celebrities and her problems with her boss, your talk about "the unique mating patters of the bonobo apes and how it relates to girls in the club" is just too alien and weird for her.
This is the same reason why you'll sometimes see the biggest AFC ever with a smoking hot girl. He's normal, and she can easily introduce him to her friends without being ashame!
3. To a woman that DOES understand it; what you're talking about might be seems like a big deal, when it should be plainly obvious.
5-10% of women actually DO get this stuff. It's obvious, intuitive and accepted for them.
These women tend to also like women, capable of open relationships, and generally a lot of fun.
But here's the thing - the guys they end up dating ALSO get this stuff intuitively.
And when you get something intuitively, you'll never gonna go out of your way to convince another person of it, or explain like it's some huge revelation!
So the moment you do it, the women who are most eligible for the lifestyle you're looking for, will instantly disqualify you.
So... What to do instead?
Here's one of the most powerful techniques I use is this:
Understand society's programming,
Understand her specific programming, and;
Appear to be under the exact same programming.
Once you get to know how to use it, you'll surely see the big improvement in your game
Keep your knowledge of REALITY to yourself (and of course, if you figure out anything amazing, I would appreciate it if you share it on my forum as well)
Tags: dating, for, tips.
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